links i find vital

where it all started for me! (btw it starts off with like a min of music)
http://www.filefactory.com/file/c0b6c4f/n/metro_025_black_in_korea_2.mp3
a seoul radio station interview about bssk
http://www.zshare.net/audio/94134128ba8ecd63/
a bunch of interviews with black expats in soko
http://www.youtube.com/user/BSSKSEXIES
find family on facebook: Brothas&Sistas of South Korea
http://www.facebook.com/group.php?gid=25747883752

Sunday, September 10, 2006

My Interview with Aeon

summary of what my aeon interview was like:

There were only 5 of us there for the group interview. I don’t know how many there were supposed to be, but the room was tiny so I suspect we were all accounted for. We were scheduled to start at 1pm with the doors opening at 12:30. I got there at 12:35 and was the last of the 5 to arrive. We started promptly at 1 and moved to another room for opening presentation. The Aeon staff locked the door behind us, preventing any latecomers from coming in.

The presenters gave a break down of aeon in general. Classrooms are tiny; your class will be about 5 students at a time. The classrooms are actually offices; Aeon schools are usually on a floor in an office building, not a full-fledged school campus. We were shown the books we’d use, and it was explained that after arrival in Japan, teacher training is about a week long. We were shown a video of a typical aeon teacher’s day: commute to work or walk, get to the office, prepare for class, teach class. In between classes, students and parents may be in the lobby, aeon staff is encouraged to interact with them at this time, to create an opportunity for people to use their English conversation skills.

Aside from lesson planning and teaching, you may be asked to do small chores in the office: turn out the lights at closing, vacuum, etc. Working days are usually Tuesday through Saturday, noon-ish to 9-ish. You get major Japanese holidays off, and 2 vacation weeks. Everyone’s is the same, so trip planning with your coworker friends work out well time-wise. There is no shift swapping or flex schedule like nova offers.

aeon does not pay airfare to Japan, I know of no company in Japan that does. However, at the end of your contract, they do pay for your plane ticket home, or the cash equivalent, your choice. aeon pays for a bus/train pass so your expenses getting to and from work are covered. A bank account in your name is set up for you before you arrive and your salary is directly deposited. You get your own apartment; it is typical Japanese single room occupancy: very very small. Every apartment comes standard with an air conditioner and heater, television set, and washing machine. In Japan, people hang their laundry to dry on the balcony.

Rent is subsidized; everyone pays 42000 yen regardless of where you live. It is automatically deducted from your paycheck. You will not have to pay deposit or
key money. You are responsible for paying your own utility and water bills. Salary is 255000 yen, which is about 2186.00 in US Dollars. Overtime is 3000 yen an hour; though it is unlikely you’d ever have to work OT. The dress code is business attire. Men must wear suits and ties. Women’s apparel is more subjective, but on the conservative side: no Capri pants, no sleeveless, etc.

The amount of money people save up while in Japan depends on the individual. Some people buckle down and save $1,000 a month, but probably did nothing fun. Some people blow it all and live check to check. How you live financially is up to you. You get basic health insurance, but not optical or dental. Get your spare glasses/contacts and dental work done before you leave. If something happens in Japan and you have to go to the doctor, you have to pay all fees upfront, but within two weeks you are reimbursed in full. If you have prescription medications you need to take with you, check with the Japanese consulate first. Having any drugs at all without proper permission is a serious offense punishable by incarceration, and shoot, Aeon will probably just tell people where they saw you last and be out! Just kidding. Not really.

Next, we were shown a standard Aeon sample lesson. The five of us then had to discuss together as a group how to break it down and write the lesson plan together while the interviewers watched.

Next we presented our lesson plans we’d been asked to prepare for the interview. We presented one by one, the rest of us acting as the class:

One guy did a conversation about where the store is, he had a handout with a little picture and 5 lines dialogue “Do you know where the new jackets are?” “They are over there,” etc. He held up the paper, talked about it, had two of us read the dialogue. Then he discussed the meaning of the word “new” and the concept of “over here” and “over there.” His presentation was ok, his energy good and voice friendly and clear. My only critique is that he could’ve blown up the picture and put it on a poster, maybe colored it, to use as his visual aid instead of holding the paper up.


The second girl talked about the word “Like” used as a preposition and “Like” used as a verb. She had a poster with questions on one side and answers on the other, we were to match up the question with the appropriate answer and say whether or not “like” was used as a preposition or a verb. her presentation was very boring, she did 90% of the talking, her poster was just her writing on a sheet of tag paper which is fine, but she wrote freestyle so the words were scrunched and crooked and difficult to read--- word to the wise, if you write on a poster, use a ruler and pencil your words first.

The third girl… was really boring, I don’t even remember what she did her lesson plan on.

The fourth guy did his on adjectives. He handed out a paper with a list of adjectives, and talked about how some were used. He asked us students to use them in a sentence. Then he gave us cards with pictures, we were not to look at the pictures, but instead pair up with someone and your partner will use adjectives to describe you and you’d try to guess who you are. He had Santa Claus, Oprah; I don’t remember whom else. This, I think, was a good lesson plan because it has the students talking to each other.

My presentation was about nouns and colors. We played something like the game Simon where I was Simon with little color cards, and the students had to repeat the color sequence. The game is good because it is mostly students talking and teachers saying very little.

The presenters then talked about the seriousness of this commitment to live in Japan for a year. Keep in mind any weddings, graduations, special events during the year: you will likely not be able to attend these. Take into account any friends or family you have that are sick or ill, in the tragic event someone becomes severely ill or dies, aeon will do all they can to assist you, but remember that that is an expensive plane ticket. Also, this is a really fragile emotional time, and you will be on the other side of the world. Also, really ask yourself why do you want to go to Japan. If you are wanting to escape something at home, you will probably take that issue with you and you’ll be just as unhappy in Japan as you are at home now, likely more so, because you will be in a foreign country.

Last was a one page grammar test, and a one page series of questions, “what do you want to do in Japan? Why do you want to go to Japan? What will you have to do to prepare to leave for Japan?” The whole thing took about 3 and half hours I think. We were told we’d hear in two weeks time whether or not we’d be invited back for a one on one interview. Two of us had flown in for the presentation, and they were told aeon would contact them by 6pm that night. Aeon called me the very next morning asking for a one on one interview that next week. I do not know if any of the others were called in for a second interview, nor if any of them were hired.

Friday, September 08, 2006

aeon, shmayon.

so i wont be joining the aeon team. bah. i lined up my next interview with geos.

i was really embarrassed to have to tell friends of aeon turning me down. but everyone said great things: they didnt want me to leave anyway, aeon sounds ill, it's not meant to be w/this company. one girlfriend said to me, "its not about you, really." and she's right. i gave a great demo, which got me the one on one interview, but that one on one was one hour. how can someone possibly get to know me in an hour? if i said something offensive or questionable, maybe it was taken the wrong way. maybe it was down to having to pick one out of 5 perfect candidates, it means 4 have to be a pass. maybe its an image thing: i do have locks, even tho i said i'd cut them, maybe it's still an issue. maybe to have no hair after i cut them was an issue. maybe its being overweight. maybe its my oddly thin eyebrows. who knows... i've been reading lately at eslcafe.com, many people who teach/taught abroad talk about how they just flew to asia and winged it. maybe i'll do that, maybe i'll just GO.thank you to my friends. thank you for reminding me that there are people who think im great, there's nothing to be done about the ones that dont.

Wednesday, September 06, 2006

so, no aeon...

i got a letter in the mail today, looked pretty much like the letter from NOVA; thank you very much, unfortunately, etc etc. Hmph. i was so sure. i was SO sure i had it. my lesson plan went so well, i wished i'd been able to videotape myself, i was so good. where did i mess up? what did i say? what did i do? am i one of those losers on the reject episodes of american idol, thinking i'm singing like a diva but sounding and looking BooBoo the Fool?

Tuesday, September 05, 2006

awaiting an answer from aeon

still awaiting an answer from aeon. it's been exactly 7 days today. ive been looking for forums online of teachers in japan, aeon specifically. if you do a google image search, you'll come up with a lot of pictures of Aeon Fluz. so weird the type of people that are in these forums. in gaijinpot.com, a guy posted a question as to how to answer "why japan" when he interviews. his real reasons, he says, are because he loves anime and magna, and to meet japanese girls b/c he heard it's easy to get laid if youre american. i dont remember quite what he said, but it was something sex nastee. i notice also a fair amount of japanese bashing in the forums. i wonder why they decided to go in the first place. can it be so bad? no. it wont be for me, im sure. every job ive had, every training, everything, there've always been people talking a lot of trash, i've never seen it as bad as others did. everything is temporary. people are too negative. i think its white people, they're so used to having things given to them, having things so easy, any small struggle is "not fair" to them. this is my own blog, so i can write whatever i want.

Saturday, September 02, 2006

no answer yet from aeon.

ive not yet heard from aeon. i hate all this waiting. i wish i just knew. the NO from nova really knocked my confidence, i feel like im waiting not for a job offer, but a letter in the mail saying no thank you. alas, there's nothing to do now but wait.

*sigh* they likely wont call over the weekend. and monday is labor day, so tuesday is maybe the earliest i'll get a call.

for distraction, im going through the buffy the vampire slayer series. im on season 5.
Turns out one of my coworkers is a die hard fan, so im brushing up on my btvs so she and i can wax on about it. we were so happy to have found this out about each other, especially to have found another sista who loves the show, and really wish we'd known this sooner. we couldve gone to the buffy parties together, couldve watched the first run episodes together! yeah, im serious! we both, also, see the same racist undertones to the series. i wrote my final college paper about it. im a multi dimentional being, there are many layers to me. seriously tho, there were practically NO reoccuring black characters onthat show. there was kendra, who was in two episodes, then she died. and she was high yellow looking like buffy with a tan.

Friday, September 01, 2006

moving on.

i interviewed w/aeon on 8/23, and they called me on 8/24 to schedule a one on one. yeah, thats right, the NEXT DAY they called me, sucka! im trying to not get too excited, b/c i surely did get happy with nova and then felt all STUPID afterwards when they turned me down!

i feel confident about this one. i was early, i had cool visual aids (we had to come w/our own prepared lesson plan and demo 5 min of it), i ROCKED my lesson plan, i looked really cute in my black with pink flowers skirt. tattoos were covered, hair stayed in a neat head wrap, and i had fresh breath.

in case anyone reading this is interested in this whole application process of teaching in japan, try yahoo groups. i joined the aeonteachernetwork, esl_teacherscafe, teachinjapan, and theteachersroomjapan yahoo groups. AND i've uploaded in the files section sample lesson plans, the actual application, mindful advice i've read on other posts, etc. im a nerd-o. if youre interested in nova, try the yahoo group novareality. i left that one after nova turned me down, der... a lot of aeon posters have american celebrities on them. i guess if you go to their school to learn english, mariah carey might drop in and visit?

Wednesday, August 30, 2006

so this is aeon.

i had a one on one interview with aeon today. i think it went well. i dont want to get overly excited, but i think i did ok.

honest to god, i really do enjoy teaching, and i think im going to love this job. when i demo'ed my lesson plan at the group interview, i was so hype, i had so much fun. i think it showed, i think thats why i was called back. but i dont feel as secure about today's interview. i'll know in two weeks time if i have a job offer or not. i should send a thank you note...

i wonder who else got called back out of my group of 5. One guy, Matt, and I were chatting outside afterward, he told me that he too had been turned down by nova... he'd called their office from his cell phone "goofing on them" as he put it, and nova traced the call back to his cell phone. he didnt give me details as to what he said probably b/c i kept saying "you did WHAT?" i asked him how nova knew it was him calling, "they asked me about it in the interview," he says. this is all a true story, just a reminder!then matt notices the girl he walked down with went back inside the building. he starts panicking, saying over and over he hopes she didnt go back in there. "why?" Smiling, he answers, "I told her i cheated off her grammar test we had to take at the end." then he laughs and says he also told her that he wasnt interested in teaching, that he just wanted to go to japan to party. i told him that he may want to put up some boundaries for himself before becoming so aloof and joke-y with people.for the first 20 minutes of my drive home, i kept thinking to myself how nice it must be to be white, and clueless about appropriate behavior since everything has always been so easy for you... *pish* pero anyways, i hope he did get called back tho, really, his lesson plan and mock was good.

Monday, August 28, 2006

no job with nova

i had an interview with nova a couple of weeks ago and they turned me down. >:( nova is supposed to be the easiest to get hired by, w/ it's reputation of "nova hires anybody with a degree and a pulse," NOT SO!!!! that stupid nova bunny is mocking me...

it's a blessing in disguise... pretty bad reputation whilst google researching, but still, getting turned down really hurt my ego. but it is my fault, i was just soooo sure they would hire me, and i dicked around so much and was 15 min late to the orientation. AND, my tattoo on my forearm was showing. and my hair was an issue too, they mentioned, tho i didnt know it would be. i thought i did so well in my interview, and bit my nails for two weeks awaiting a response, and then got a letter in my mail telling me no thank you. i felt hella stupid!

frak it, ive now applied with aeon & geos, and determined that if i get turned down by them, i will apply with jet, kevins english schools, and ecc. they cant ALL turn me down. the tardiness, according to my mentors and folks i've met in the nova & japan english teachers groups in yahoo, is what hurt me most. in japan, being on time means being 15 min early. lesson learnt.'

Wednesday, August 02, 2006

lil' intro

i have a girlfriend who is leaving for japan next month to teach. a lot of college grads do it, via nova or jet or something, and be gone for however long. im excited for her.

my homeboy has been there for 2 years now, he keeps renewing his contract, b/c he just really likes it. im so inspired now. i think im going to japan, too.

i did apply once before, i got an email asking i come to san francisco for an interview and i let that email sit in my inbox for a year and a half. i wasnt ready, i guess. i liked my job, i was worried about all my debts & felt i couldnt leave, i didnt have the money to go to san francisco for the interview, etc, many other excuses/reasons. but now i think i AM ready, im inspired, i think i need to just go! i sent in my application to nova. i got an email asking i schedule an interview. and nova will actually BE in san diego on the 27th. its kismet.

Tuesday, August 01, 2006

how it all happened.

2006 Full of cultural pride and afrocentricity, the Supa Dupa Fly Seoul Sista is a proud pinay african american; the product of a Black father and Filipino mother. as i write this, i am 30 years old. i was raised in a 'hood in southern california.

i used to hate school. i got so-so grades in high school. i got to college, grew up a little. in college i took africana studies classes and it changed everything. i grew to love school & love learning. i love black studies. I learned that what and how you teach can make all the difference. I am the first in my family to graduate from college. I finished in 2002 with a BA in Fine Arts (emphasis painting) & a BA in Africana Studies (emphasis humanities) & I concurrently did a minor in English Literature.

After graduating, i worked at a local afrocentric cultural center as a teacher and program coordinator. i left after two months b/c of the drama- i came to find that i was the 4th to quit that position in less than 6 months. i continued to volunteer as a teacher a couple days a week b/c i really loved the classes, but the office politics was too heavy for even volunteering. i looked at working at a couple other black centered organizations, but the pay was always so low.

eventually i got a job at $9.50/hour working full time in a field that had nothing to do with my majors in college. two years later, i got fired. so got another job. left that one. found another. this went on for a while, jobs in call centers and customer service, getting fired or quitting, working and living. over and over again.

i worked full time, even held down two jobs for a while at one point, but still was broke all the time. i never had any savings and worried about where i was going to be 5 years from then, 10 years, still broke? when my car would break down, i'd ride the bus to work until next payday, or my dad would give me money for repair. i still went to my parents house to do laundry every week so i wouldnt have to pay for the laundry-mat. i didnt like this life. im a college graduate and was at the highest paying job i'd ever had at $12.50 an hour.

i felt like i wasnt making enough money to do things that grown up people are supposed to be able to do- have my own apartment (always had a roommate b/c of rent), go on vacation, go to plays, donate to charity- i was the one who needed charity! and god i missed travelling. whilst in college, student loans and grants and scholarships allowed me to spend summers abroad - Ghana, Togo, England, France. now school is over and i couldnt afford a french restaurant. i think sometimes that i wasnt trying hard enough, that there was a job out there with a livable wage for me, but i just didnt find it yet. i didnt know what to do.

one night whilst working a graveyard shift a brotha friend of mine im'ed me from japan. i remember when he left, and how excited i was for him. a light went on in my head and i resumed the esl job search that i had started years prior. here it was years later, i hated paying rent, i was always broke, and had no fears about leaving the country.

i talked a lot to my friend in japan and was feeling like esl is something that i could do and do well. i'd daily browse eslcafe.com, and esl related yahoo groups. another girlfriend of mine left for japan a month later, we kept in touch and she loved it there. i got hype, i went online, and re-applied with nova.

nova turned me down. so i applied with aeon. aeon turned me down. i thought maybe i just didnt have it. my friend in japan was so encouraging and told me that there were so many opportunities, i shouldnt worry about these two companies, i could get a job offer elsewhere. it is harder, he told me, for a person of color to get a job, but not impossible. and so after these two of the major eikawas turned me down, I dusted off my ego and pressed onward.

whilst on an online esl forum i stumbled onto korea. i learned that the esl market is much bigger there. learned that the wage for korea is comparable to japan, but it's not unheard of for the korean employer to pay your airfare over, as well as give you free accommodations. the cost of living in korea was also less than japan. since i didnt know the difference between korea and japan anyway, i looked into getting a job in korea (i do know the difference now, btw, ha!).

whilst on an online forum for esl teachers in korea, i encountered quite a bit of discouragement. people went on about the discrimination and racism there. a lot of "i'd never come here if i was black," and "you'd better have a tough skin" and "dont come here, go to japan where there's more tolerance" etc. After reflecting on that, i realised that a lot of this discouragement came from white people, as many esl teachers in korea are- they are the easiest to get hired as koreans equate english with white people. they found themselves in another country experiencing racism for the first time and were having a hard time with it. "No way does this type of racism happen back home," they assume. As "progressive" as they are, they assume that there's no way a black person could handle all the discrimination . ultimately i decided i'll pass on their advice and come anyway.

i learned that korea is a very homogeneous society and have a lot of misconceptions about foreigners. i think the only thing most may know about black people is what they see on tv. im not mad at korea for that. a little mad at the american media, but not at korea.

i've just signed a contract with cdi and leave for korea on 02/09/06. im really really excited. yeah, me!